I Need Obvious Benefits in Friendships

"If you lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas."
For the last year I have been preoccupied with the word obvious, I want:

1. Obvious good decisions.
2. Obviously easy to afford rooms.
3. Obviously happy people in my life.
4. Obviously good business associates or advertisers.
5. Obvious work that is make money.
(Note, the Big G makes that an impossible dream.)

I have many obviously good friends, they do not make life difficult. However, once in awhile I find myself talking to a person here in Sosua and I ask the question,
"Why am I talking to this person?"

Just the fact I am asking the question should give me a hint the relationship is not obviously the best idea.

Sosua, Dominican Republic - Caribbean --- Saturday, May 7, 2011
by Andy Graham (Gadget) of HoboTraveler.com | Gadget Profile

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I saw this advertisement for Thomas Cook in the Brussels airport, it felt rather ironic. Thomas Cook was one of the founding fathers of the travel industry, he was one of the first people to arrange tours, this was in the 1800’s.

My Hobo Nickname is Gadget.

Funny, often people think I want to be a Hobo, in reality I relate more to inventing and gadgets, I would want to be like Thomas Edison, but a Hobo is my free spirit shadow.

Week Two in Sosua
A person can almost write off their first week in a country, it is confusion, no decision is obviously correct. It is better for me to relax in the first week, and not make any big plans, then on week two I start to venture out and understand my present planet.

I Need Obvious Benefits in Friendships