Bob, of course a person should go to the Pool.
Rich, smart and prosperous people are often fat also.
There is an interesting phenomenon here in the Philippines that is noteworthy. Men will pay women to be with them, and somehow the feel empowered or invigorated as if they are handsome.
This is a mind twisting feature that happens to the men who live in Angeles City or the Philippines. They are told they are handsome so many times, they somehow ignore the mirror and believe the voices talking to them.
However, egotistical people are often so self-absorbed they never realized they got older, fatter, and uglier.
I consider myself incredibly fat right now, however we must go on living.
For you to say "What am I to do?" tells me you are not egotistical in this way.
The lack of self-awareness makes for a potentially dangerous person. A sociopath or psychopath has no conscious, and no shame.
Just fun stuff.