How to not win friends, and fail to influence people -- start out any conversation with a goal of being a good person, or happy. It feels, appears to me, that people are traumatized, my guess is from Mothers, Fathers, and school teachers you can't tell me what to do!
This has taken me 64 years to learn.
Do not ask, tell, request, or insinuate a person needs to be good! Do not ask them to be happy; it will guarantee they do the opposite.
Experiment...
See if you can make a person angry!
Thank you, Andy Lee Graham
Thu, 30 Apr 2020 04:52:21