“When you hear a yes or no in the developing world, quickly remember to rephrase the word to “Maybe,” in your head, however please do not tell them, it is not polite.
My Mother wants me to write her when I am ready to leave for Breu, Peru.
Mom, Yes, I am ready to go, “Maybe.”
I truly wish it were possible for a person in 20 percent of the countries like the USA we call developed, to understand the people who live the other 80 percent of the planet like Peru are different.
They are normal, we are abnormal, and I am from the USA.
I am 100 percent ready to leave by Plane today for Breu, Peru. My bags are packed. I am telling you I am ready to leave. I may leave by airplane today. Yes, I am leaving today, but then again maybe I do not.
I am in Peru, it is developing nation, so this means a “maybe,” the word “yes” always means “maybe.”
You can trust people, however please understand yes is not translated the same here as in the USA, Europe or Australia. (Should I include the French, Italians or ... etc in this list?)
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When I am close to traveler or tourist and they tell me something about a country, it is easy to suss out how well they understand cultures. If they say absolute comments, such as, “the Guide is coming exactly at 10:00...”
I know they do not understand the developing world. Now, there are people that have lived in the developing world for 20 years and still say things like this, they never learn to adjust, and often this person is perpetually angry or a hermit. The majority of expatriates in developing countries become the same as the locals. They are late, they do not care, and they are not committal or responsible they are normal people on Planet Earth.
Then again, the long-term travelers, the expats of the planet, are indeed the “wanted and un-wanted,” or they would not be traveling.
When you hear a yes or no in the developing world, quickly remember to transpose the word to “Maybe.”
There is a phrase in the Christian Bible where it says to let your yes be yes and your no be no. This truly makes sense when you understand the primitive cultures. When I have a friend that does not make a yes a yes, or a no a no, I know they are acting natural, this is the natural way of living, it is not our nature to committal, but a person is one step closer to Sainthood when a yes is yes, and a no is no, because we can be trusted.