Wide White Women Wanted in Africa

Pato from has written 56 comments

This is truly hilarious. Hilarious and true. Same thing in Latin America, though the chubby part is not as highly sought after.

But this is also true for Western guys in East Asia. The girls there don't seem to even know that they are with a pencil neck geek.

tropicalguide from has written 112 comments

While traveling, if you are lucky enough to find your soul mate more power to you! I live in Latin America, I am getting on in years and still of course enjoy the girl watching, this society is basically not puritanical as the US, English speaking Canada, UK, etc.
Sometimes here in Latin America, females far younger than I still think I can wave a magic wand, "teach" them English and help them obtain a US Visa. So wrong. I married once in Eastern Europe, my ex wife had won beauty contests, 6 months later her Green Card for the US Residency arrived, a few months later she was long gone.
My soul mate or whatever may still be out there, over 35 with grown children please!!!!
I have lived in Central America and Mexico about 24 years, I have seen very few US female..Latino male cross cultural relationships suceed, at all economic levels, after tthe first child is born, males here tend to get bored and wander. Not all, but many, I am an an Ex Pat and not a traveler and I over 60 am starting to judge females for brains and personality and character rather than looks.
Anyway, male or female, young, travel to Africa, Asia and Latin America and see for yourself, just do not be a bleeding heart because many will take advantage of you, back in 1990 I trusted one nice looking young lady in Guatemala, she tried to steal my car, but could not drive, however she got ahold of one my checks and got the equivilant of $175 out of my bank account, I did get the money back since the signature was so bad, learned a good lesson, think with my head, not my groin.

I am writing a short and funny book and hope someday to produce the first 'Ex Pat and long term Traveler musical' Politically incorrect, gotta be.

In my travels have met prostiutes with hearts of gold and lawyers and politicians not worth a short spit, mad missionaries (all from States or English Canada) who told me I would be damned if I did not accept their belief system and supposed guerillas/criminals who saved my life.

Called LIFE IN THE TROPICS











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What's Good for the Goose is Good for the Gander.

Can't speak for Togo. In Kenya and Gabon (French +40 y.o blancs), there were plenty of supersized white women who were looking for arrangements, that their white male counterparts are looking for South of the Border, in the Philippines and Thailand. In Japan, white females are often lavished upon by their suitors.
Usually, you get what you pay for--enjoying or regretting.

Asiabill from has written 258 comments

For 20 years I've wondered why the "wide white women" of the world haven't discovered the incredible advantages and demand for themselves in S.E. Asia and other countries with ethnic, "tribal" backgrounds where they are considered "healthy" prosperous and attractive. Filipinos like Africans like plumper women in contrast to the females pictured in Hollywood, fashion magazines and athletics ( with or without photoshop "help" ). Like you mentioned there is special mate for each and every person but sometiems we can not seem to find the "magic" close to home.

I want to add a "wide white woman's" perspective to your comments above. = )

Some other considerations a woman inclined to consider the above advice might like to carefully consider:

1. The enormous AIDS epidemic in Africa. Google "Aids in Africa statistics''. It's a killer. Don't sleep with anyone who hasn't been with you for a complete, comprehensive, first-world-caliber blood test and screening for all possible STD's.
2. There is nothing as cruel as not really being loved by someone who, instead, actually loves your US citizenship, your earning potential, in short, what you can do for him.
3. Be aware that according to Islam, a man may marry an infidel, but in any case of marriage to a Muslim, the children belong to the man, and every Muslim nation backs this up in their courts and will do nothing about getting your kids repatriated back to you if he absconds with them to his country of origin.
4. AIDS is not the only sexually transmittable disease that can wreck your life. There are scores more that can ruin your ability to reproduce, such as chlamydia, or others that just scar you with a disease you'll always have the symptoms of, such as oozing outbreaks of herpes.
5. It must be said, condoms are not a 100 effective barrier. They can break, or have a hole, or slide off.
6. Lastly, cross cultural romantic commitments are a challenge in the best of circumstances, but the more divergent the cultures, the more challenges there are waiting to rear their ugly head. In other words, know what you are getting into, without any doubts. "Slow and steady." A man/woman Africa/US relationship is at the outer reaches of cultural divergence and presuppositions about the man's and woman's role.