2011 February 18 Entered Ivory Coast left Ghana West Africa

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Peter from
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Hi Andy! Even youre a top experienced traveller, be careful with bah. What i am talking about? Hobo-experience has probably nothing to do with West-African-young-girls experience. Nearly all of them are very, very tricky scammers. I had already some of these experience, but never fell really deep into one of these traps. They are world champions in wrapping a man around their finger.
Whats the strategy? They find a white man. This means, youre basically a living wallet.
I think, you already paid all in Ghana: room, food, drinks. Thats still normal, thats what we would do with a western girl. But then, you start to bite the hook and then...youre in the trap.
You feel lonely uproad, you´ve a very beautiful young girl, she invites you at home, shows you around in the neighbourhood. You will invite some of her girlfriends for dinner (but never men).
West african girls are very clever. They live, as you already mentioned, in a harsh, brutal macho environment. I knew young girls, they got a child from an african guy: most of these west african guys give a shit for the girl or their child. They just leave the mother alone. Thats why you can meet so much young girls with 1 or 2 children, but no husband. They know how to survive. I dont want to take you down, believe me. Just be careful and analyze these situation with sharp eyes and brain.
Two stories:
1. the "cellphone scam". I was together somewhre in West Africa with a young, beautiful perfect girl. No sex, just hanging around while I was bored in the city. Once, we left with one of her girlfrined to my hotel. Initialyy, they wnated to go away to a party or something else. Suddenly in the taxi in front of my hotel, they decided to come with me, just to accompany me to the reception. Out of the taxi, my girlfriend started to yell and cry. What happened? She told me, she lost her cellphone in the taxi that just left. She bagged me, to give her the money for a new one, her parents would kill her for the lost. What really happened? I left the taxi first, then the two girls. My so called girlfriend gave her cellphone to her girlfriend, she hided it. Then, she wanted to suck the money out of my pocket. I didnt give, I was amused by this cheap scam.
2. "the " I am pregnant scam": First step: the girl wants to make you trust. Thats why, they demand a "HIV-test". That has nothing to do with her fear, that you´ve AIDS. She wants you to trust her, that he hasnt AIDS. Now, you are shure, that she is sain. After that, when youve have sex and youre in a weak situation, she will aks you to sleep with her without condom. So now, youre in the trap. After a certain time (when from the medical point of view, a pregnancy test mekes sense), she will tell you, that she has a child of you.
This will be, when you already left somewhere else. I am sure, even after leaving, you will stay in contact with her. Then, in a very, very subtle way, she will demand money for the child. She will never demand directly. No, they have very subtle tactics.
Ok, Andy, these are my experiences, just wanted to share it with you.
Be careful in Cote d´Ivoire. West Africa is the origin of voodoo, these tricky religion is deep in the society, its part of it and some of west african behaviour goes back to voodoo.
Wish you the best, i love your blog, follow on and good luck.
Peter
Gadget from
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Peter, that was great, you explained with detail, many readers comment without enough detail to trust it was firsthand experiences.
She has had problems now with two cell phones, I am not sure, the one stopped working while I was with her, the other one she lost.
I am going to post a good voodoo type story soon about Bah, the the last day I have been teasing her she is doing voodoo.
Peter from
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Maybe shes the one out of the masses. Who knows? I wish you a very nice and perfect time with her.
I tell you another last story about how voodoo works. Was in Ghana.
I knew a west african guy who worked for a long time uproad in Europe.
After this time, he went back to his mothercountry. He fell in love with a local girl and wanted to marry her. Socialized in Europe, he never believed in voodoo but couldnt avoid it once back home. Why? His mother didnt agree with her son to marry the girl he loved. She wanted him to marry another one, the one SHE choosed. Why? The mother of the girl she choosed owned a small grocery. The mother of my friend had for the area and the local income level a huge debt in the grocery. Her idea was her son should marry the girl SHE choosed, and all the debt would be cancelled.
He didnt agree. So his mother hired a voodoo-socerer to put a so-called spell on his girl.
Even he didnt believe in voodoo, he started to be under enormous social pressure, because all his local surrounding believed in voodoo. They started to avoid him and moreover, to agress him. The solution for him was to hire an own voodoo-sorcerer to put something like a "counter-spell". That was the only way to overcome his mother.
As I said, he dindt believe but couldnt avoid. Finally, he could marry the girl he loved.
Voodoo isnt something to fear from a spiritual point of view, its simply a very old, tricky and sometimes dangerous system of social rules. And finally I believe that its something that doesnt go in a western socialized brain, its out of our horizon and logic-analytic-based radar. I experienced some other more or less harmless stories about voodoo. I know the symptons and can detect them but finally I dont understand, what it really is in its nature.
Peter
Ah yes Peter, the Cell phone routine. Those West African Ladies are crafty to say the least.
Next up is, "my sister/brother/mother/neice has Typhoid/Malaria/etc." and will die if you don't buy medicine, of course "she" will take the money to them.
Then there will be a death in the family, and she will need money to buy clothes/offerings for the funeral.
Then there's the weekly "food money".
Then there's the "rent money".
Then there's the "generator money" because the other one is "spoiled".
Then there's the "new TV" money because someone stole the existing one.
Then there's the "mattress", cause mine is spoiled.
By this time she has had at least 4 or 5 cell phones lost or stolen.
Then there's the "cooking pots".
Then there's the "Taxi money".
Then there's the ... "I'm pregnant".
- Got to love it, these beautiful West African Ladies have a strong survival instinct indeed. If you start giving in to their demands, they will see you as being weak, and to be exploited to the max!!! Then when you're not around, she will share her success with here "sisters", including the money, and they will sit around and compare notes, cook a big meal, and have a good laugh ... at you.
Thanks Andy, be careful.
P.S. Watched an excellent movie last week.
"Corbra Verde"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4glquMRJLF8
Gadget from
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I started moving some of the Scam information to this link, while don't you to men help keep the boys and me out of trouble by writing even more details.
Note, I think she has brought up everything on your two list in one way or the other. She has not wanted money for anything, but she wants to rent a room. The situation is this, it looks like I can rent a room for a year for the same price I pay in a Hotel for a couple of months.
Fun stuff, and you do have to love the women of the world, they are always trying to talk us out of money. Not to say men in Africa are not doing it to the women, normally rather fat women.
http://www.hobotraveler.com/scams/index.php
http://www.hobotraveler.com/love/index.php