USA Man Wants Wife or Girlfriend

USA Man Wants Wife or Girlfriend
A reader wrote and asked in a serious manner how to find a women for a pretty and nice women for serious relationship.

Thammasat University Rangsit, Thailand
Thursday, October 9, 2008
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I hope all is well.

When you have a moment, I would appreciate your advice. What city/country would you recommend that a man from the US travel to who would like to meet a women for a relationship or possible marriage? I am not interested in a P- (Boom Boom Girls) but would like to meet a pretty & nice woman from another country for a long term relationship. I guess what I am asking is - in terms of convenience of travel, overall beauty of the women & how much they like Caucasian men from the US - what would be a few of your recommendations? I am not well traveled and only speak English.

Thanks so much for any advice.



I do not like to answer these questions privately as I am positive there are millions of men in the USA who want a wife, or a replacement. I was baffled by the word “convenient,” however; I suppose it makes sense in a way; however, no relationship is convenient, they take work.


1. Colombia - Bogota
2. Peru - Aeroquipa
3. Brazil - ?

1. Philippines - Outside of the big cities.
2. Thailand - Difficult, very difficult, in small village.

1. Ghana - Small villages

? Is Russia convenient, I would think not…

Are their nice girls in big cities, hedge your bets, easier to find nice girls in small villages on planet earth, they are softer, nicer and more family orientated, while the city ones are more opportunistic.

I have no idea on China, never heard much about this country, and for sure your English is gong to hurt. None in Central America or Mexico, I do not know of any Middle East countries, I am told Ethiopia, Uganda, and Kenya are crazy for Caucasian men.

In my mind the easiest place for a USA man to meet girls on the planet is the Philippines and he only one that speak English, however for sure a person would need lesson in how to avoid the P- (Boom Boom Girls) also.

Note, anywhere on the planet, put a USA flag on your bag, that gives the girls some help.

Note, if you go into bars as a USA citizen in many countries, I am sure you can meet some bad girls. I do not drink alcohol and do not go to bars; however, I see what the boys drag home.

In a way, this is not about how to meet nice girls; you need to learn how to avoid the naughty ones who see you as a walking dollar bill. First and always, do not spend large if you want to meet nice girls, just enough to prove you can support them in a decent manner.

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Japan and China.

It is absolutely astonishing to me how well a Caucasian man, who is regarded as nothing other than a pencil necked geek in their own country, can court the women of East Asia.

Though I speak from observation, not experience.


Thai girls are prettier but the Philippine girls are loyal. Til death due you part.

I have a theory that skinny USA men do well in Asia. Their body shape is the same as the skinny stringy Asian guys, therefore the look is close to the same as Asia and they do well. I am toward the chubby side, so I do not look Asian.

I agree with Chuck. One would be hard pressed to find a more loyal, sensual and family oriented woman than a Filipina. I was engaged to one for 16 months and it was heaven on earth.

The hard part comes when one attempts to go through the incredibly daunting process of applying for a visa for her to enter the U.S. The Department of Homeland Security and the State Dept. have so many convoluted miles of red tape that it can discourage even the most in love couples from going forward with marraige to a Filipina.

I strongly believe however, that Filipinas, those from the rural provices, make some of the best wives on the planet.

For good blog to read about relationships to Filipinas, applying for marraige visas and other important cultural information on this topic, go to World of and read up on all the ups and downs of marraige into this wonderful culture!


In defense of the USA rules, I went into the Embassy of the USA in Manila.

It was quite obvious the men of the USA were in the process of marrying and importing prostitutes to the USA. It is ok with me if they marry a prostitute, however I 100 percent want them to make the importing process very difficult to give the crazy men time to learn the girl is a prostitute.

My guess 98 percent of th men marry a prostitute.

Love is really blind, however I am not worried about Chuck Wow.

Just to prove to you that there is still alot of descent woman in my country. Opposing to your "98 percent of US men marrying a prostitutes", well perhaps US men had this poor judgment to whom he wanted to get marry.

hope you figure it out.


Theres a lot of descent girls in the Philippines just be sure dont go to a club to find your partner, definitely you will end up to a prostitute. Just keep on searching and you will find the right, educated fililipna... It might be ME ( just kidding)

Good luck

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