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Growing Up as a Traveler

Growing Up as a Traveler
As I look back on my 10-11 years of travels my understanding of has changed. I am no longer a man out living some adventurous life whereby I scrimp, save, tough it out to see the world.

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Khao San Road - Bangkok, Thailand
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
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I still scrimp, save and tough it out, when I need to...

Nothing has changed dramatically with my travels, my life is about the same as it was 10-11 years ago when I started. The quality of my living conditions has changed over time, it is funny, it has nothing to do with money, it has only to do with the lessons I learned about travel.

I know how to choose the best hotel quickly, and transform my room into a better room by a few adaptations.

I do not tolerate bad Hotel management, bad buses, bad travel agents, or any other tourist related person or company.

What has changed from when I first started to travel is my perspective of how I need to travel. I thought I had to endure the trials and tribulations relations of the traveler. I thought it was required that I torture myself, that it was rights of passage that I needed to pay to travel the planet.

I still have to take some really torturous trips, deal with bag managers of hotels, and want to slap clueless travel agents for trying to rip me off for plane tickets.

However, when I started, I asked for problems. I believed I needed to endure and tolerate these people. I am happy I know I am wrong, there is not true need to give the time of day to bad people or companies of the world. You enter and the moment you realize you made a mistake, you leave, you do not give them the benefit of the doubt, you do not be nice, you do not be tender and caring.

I only get out of life what I expect.

I see many travel blogs bragging and dreamily explaining their travels as if their travels are some exotic life, nobody on the planet will ever experience. Where do they go, they go to Thailand, Guatemala, Peru, Australia and Europe, which means they went where hundreds of thousands of people have already gone.

Do people really want to hear the world as seen filtered and edited, no reality to bite you in the face?

I remember when I thought one years travel was a lot, now I do not consider a person even on the road until they have been outside their country for at least three years.

I have accepted I am at home, I am doing what I do in life, I travel the planet and enjoy my life.

My daily goal is to live nice, enjoy the day, and to avoid the ugly of the world..

Growing Up as a Traveler

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Hi Mr. Andy,
You so right in how other bloggers represent travelling. I guess is a natural tendency to commercialize blogs of this nature in order to bring in the bucks.. Thats understandable. What I have a problem with is when it becomes nothing more than promoting their experience or local tourist industry. Your site is different in that its a fact finding mission. You put sensors out and are compiling a database.
I dont need decision making done for me or to be sold on the idea of travelling, I need current info, data, a lay of the land, so that I can make my own informed decisions. YOu do that in spades.
What I like is your sense of priorties. Food, Shelter and clothing at reasonable level of civility. Nothing glamorous or outlandishly wasteful. You establish a base line thats rational and for the most part stress free. Maybe there is something to be said for getting older and becoming grumpy...hehe. I also dont tolerate much these days. Currently my biggest peeve is common courtesy. I am not dude. or hey man! or chief. Clerks WILL address me as sir or Mr. or I speak to managers. A nice way to get a free meal at the local Hooters, by the way...hehe
Take care farmboy

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Thank you, I agree about manners, if a person calls me Dude, it is a great way to be ignored.

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"I remember when I thought one years travel was a lot, now I do not consider a person even on the road until they have been outside their country for at least three years."

So when you were traveling for 2 years, what was your criteria in determining whether or not they were on the road?

Andy - there are only a handful of people that can travel for extended periods (years), so why do those of us that have to hold down jobs, raise kids, etc. deserve to be arbitrarily classified by you?

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Anonymous... funny and a good example for this post.

"So when you were traveling for 2 years, what was your criteria in determining whether or not they were on the road?"

This is the point of the post, at 2 years I was not grown up, I knew nothing about travel, however in my arrogance I believe that one and two years was a great amount of time. I had a page where I interviewed people who had traveler for over one year, it to me now is a joke.

Tourists and Travelers do deserve to be judge by me, they need to know they do not know anything about the planet earth.

If someone who had traveled for 10 years would have told me this when I had been traveling for 2 years, I would have a change to have more humility.

I now know at 10 years I know very little about the planet.

However as for your lame excuse about money and family. This was your choice, I made the choice to travel. You made your, I made mine, it does not require money and opportunity to trvael, it requires less, you can take off and escape.

For a USA person it is very easy, they can go to many countries and teach English, Taiwan is a good example.

Or you can make babies, traveling is an alternative choice to living the same life as the rest of the planet.

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A good traveller is one who does not know where he is going.
A perfect traveller does not know where he came from.
- Lin Yutang
Claps !!!
Very well said.
Enjoy the journey...
:)

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Andy said: "...it does not require money and opportunity to trvael, it requires less, you can take off and escape."

But how can you travel without money?

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Money is not the problem.

Focus on a Job on the road and stop focusing on having money before you leave.

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