in searching "Indonesia-volunteers" found your site, and a few week old question looking for volunteer opportunities there. Read your blog, and thought you might enjoy sharing information on a volunteer group currently working near Yogyakarta, and even thought you might want to stop by, since you're in the neighborhood. Group initially formed after the tsunami, then brought 1,500 volunteers down to Biloxi after Katrina. Small project just getting launched in Sawit
I guess, my immediate reaction at an airport is to assume people are seeing a close friend they have not seen in a long time/ or they will not see for a long time.
However, if i had reason to suspect they were lesbians, this does not make me think it is wrong: it would have, once, because of my religious background. And, for sure, many people in my Church would say it is wrong. However, I do not often agree with the theology of people in my Church.
I think this is also an example of what you say. we both have different views: maybe both are normal.